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The benefits for both you and your children are immeasurable.
After reading this Guidebook …
You will be …
· confident about how to begin, end, and just what to say all the way through the “divorce” conversation
· prepared to share with your children the six essential concepts they need to understand and accept
· aware of what your children may be thinking and feeling so you can respond accordingly
· secure, as a role-model for your children, on how to handle disagreements and discord with dignity, integrity and respect
· proud, for the sake of your children, that you took the high road as you venture into your separation or divorce
You will feel …
· totally prepared to tell your kids about the divorce – because you will be!
· empowered about conveying your message with understanding, compassion and love
· confident you’re giving your family the best possible foundation for a healthy and harmonious future, despite your divorce
· capable of creating and maintaining a Child-Centered divorce
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After reading this Guidebook …
You will be …
· confident about how to begin, end, and just what to say all the way through the “divorce” conversation
· prepared to share with your children the six essential concepts they need to understand and accept
· aware of what your children may be thinking and feeling so you can respond accordingly
· secure, as a role-model for your children, on how to handle disagreements and discord with dignity, integrity and respect
· proud, for the sake of your children, that you took the high road as you venture into your separation or divorce
You will feel …
· totally prepared to tell your kids about the divorce – because you will be!
· empowered about conveying your message with understanding, compassion and love
· confident you’re giving your family the best possible foundation for a healthy and harmonious future, despite your divorce
· capable of creating and maintaining a Child-Centered divorce
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Are YOU stuck in divorce indecision & feeling lost and confused, just wishing that someone – anyone! – would throw you a lifeline? Does any of this sound familiar?
• you’re plagued by indecision
• you can't sleep well at night
• you're irritable and short-tempered
• you have trouble focusing on your work
• you feel angry with your boss and co-workers
• you get mad with your children over little things
• you're not as much fun to be with and you cry a lot more
• you're mad at yourself and at your husband
• you have weird, violent, sad or angry dreams
• your sex drive is lower
• you have health problems: heart palpitations, ulcer, digestive disorders, backaches, headaches, muscle aches, shortness of breath
• your immune system is weakened and you get sick more easily
• you feel overburdened
• if you smoke or drink, you're doing more of the same
• you don't exercise much, or even at all
• some days you feel like a bad mom, a bad daughter, a bad wife
• you frown or worry so much you’re getting new wrinkles!
• at times you feel sad, depressed, afraid, hopeless and lonely
• you feel lost and uncertain, and the future looks bleak
• you don't know what to do, where to turn, or the steps to take
"Now You Can Stop Your Indecision & Pain About Whether to Stay Married or Get a Divorce – Even If You've Tried Everything Before!"
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• you’re plagued by indecision
• you can't sleep well at night
• you're irritable and short-tempered
• you have trouble focusing on your work
• you feel angry with your boss and co-workers
• you get mad with your children over little things
• you're not as much fun to be with and you cry a lot more
• you're mad at yourself and at your husband
• you have weird, violent, sad or angry dreams
• your sex drive is lower
• you have health problems: heart palpitations, ulcer, digestive disorders, backaches, headaches, muscle aches, shortness of breath
• your immune system is weakened and you get sick more easily
• you feel overburdened
• if you smoke or drink, you're doing more of the same
• you don't exercise much, or even at all
• some days you feel like a bad mom, a bad daughter, a bad wife
• you frown or worry so much you’re getting new wrinkles!
• at times you feel sad, depressed, afraid, hopeless and lonely
• you feel lost and uncertain, and the future looks bleak
• you don't know what to do, where to turn, or the steps to take
"Now You Can Stop Your Indecision & Pain About Whether to Stay Married or Get a Divorce – Even If You've Tried Everything Before!"
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Recent Statistics on marriage and divorce in the United States of America:
There were approximately 2,230,000 marriages in the year 2005 -- from 2,279,000 the previous year, despite a total population increase of 2.9 million over the same period.
The divorce rate in 2005 (per 1,000 people) was 3.6 -- the lowest rate since 1970, and down from 4.2 in 2000 and from 4.7 in 1990. (The peak was at 5.3 in 1981, according to the Associated Press.)
The marriage rate in 2005 (per 1,000) was 7.5, down from 7.8 the previous year.
In 2004, the state with the highest reported divorce rate was Nevada, at 6.4 (per 1,000). Arkansas was a close second, with a divorce rate of 6.3, followed by Wyoming at 5.3. The District of Columbia had the lowest reported divorce rate, at 1.7, followed by Massachusetts at 2.2 and Pennsylvania at 2.5. (Figures were not complete for California, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Louisiana, or Oklahoma.)
8.1% of coupled households consist of unmarried heterosexual partners, according to The State of Our Unions 2005, a report issued by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University. The same study said that only 63% of American children grow up with both biological parents -- the lowest figure in the Western world.
As of 2003, 43.7% of custodial mothers and 56.2% of custodial fathers were either separated or divorced. And in 2002, 7.8 million Americans paid about $40 billion in child and/or spousal support (84% of the payers were male).
Americans tend to get married more between June and October than during the rest of the year. In 2005, August had the most marriages at about 235,000 or a rate of 9.3 per 1,000 people. The previous year, July was the highest month at 246,000, or a rate of 9.9; this doubled the lowest month in 2004, January.
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There were approximately 2,230,000 marriages in the year 2005 -- from 2,279,000 the previous year, despite a total population increase of 2.9 million over the same period.
The divorce rate in 2005 (per 1,000 people) was 3.6 -- the lowest rate since 1970, and down from 4.2 in 2000 and from 4.7 in 1990. (The peak was at 5.3 in 1981, according to the Associated Press.)
The marriage rate in 2005 (per 1,000) was 7.5, down from 7.8 the previous year.
In 2004, the state with the highest reported divorce rate was Nevada, at 6.4 (per 1,000). Arkansas was a close second, with a divorce rate of 6.3, followed by Wyoming at 5.3. The District of Columbia had the lowest reported divorce rate, at 1.7, followed by Massachusetts at 2.2 and Pennsylvania at 2.5. (Figures were not complete for California, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Louisiana, or Oklahoma.)
8.1% of coupled households consist of unmarried heterosexual partners, according to The State of Our Unions 2005, a report issued by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University. The same study said that only 63% of American children grow up with both biological parents -- the lowest figure in the Western world.
As of 2003, 43.7% of custodial mothers and 56.2% of custodial fathers were either separated or divorced. And in 2002, 7.8 million Americans paid about $40 billion in child and/or spousal support (84% of the payers were male).
Americans tend to get married more between June and October than during the rest of the year. In 2005, August had the most marriages at about 235,000 or a rate of 9.3 per 1,000 people. The previous year, July was the highest month at 246,000, or a rate of 9.9; this doubled the lowest month in 2004, January.
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Dear Website Visitor:
My name is Dr. Reena Sommer. I am a divorce consultant and coach and I work exclusively with divorcing people, couples and families. My 20 years of experience in this area comes from working with clients from all parts of the U.S., Canada and even as far away as Europe, India and Australia.
Over the years, I've witnessed many of the challenges that people face when they divorce. These challenges can cause considerable heartache, hardship and expense. However, many of these divorce related difficulties can be avoided - if clients avail themselves ahead of time of the proper information about the divorcing process.
The reality for most people getting divorced is that it is their first - and hopefully - only experience of this kind. However, this lack of experience leaves them quite naive and under-informed about what the divorce process is really all about. A lack of appropriate information leaves people vulnerable to many divorce pitfalls including a potentially vindictive spouse who has absolutely no interest at all in being fair or equitable.
That is what lead me to write my special ebook, "How to Avoid the Ten BIGGEST Divorce Mistakes" I want to share with you my insights about the pitfalls in the divorcing process and what you can do to prevent them from happening.
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My name is Dr. Reena Sommer. I am a divorce consultant and coach and I work exclusively with divorcing people, couples and families. My 20 years of experience in this area comes from working with clients from all parts of the U.S., Canada and even as far away as Europe, India and Australia.
Over the years, I've witnessed many of the challenges that people face when they divorce. These challenges can cause considerable heartache, hardship and expense. However, many of these divorce related difficulties can be avoided - if clients avail themselves ahead of time of the proper information about the divorcing process.
The reality for most people getting divorced is that it is their first - and hopefully - only experience of this kind. However, this lack of experience leaves them quite naive and under-informed about what the divorce process is really all about. A lack of appropriate information leaves people vulnerable to many divorce pitfalls including a potentially vindictive spouse who has absolutely no interest at all in being fair or equitable.
That is what lead me to write my special ebook, "How to Avoid the Ten BIGGEST Divorce Mistakes" I want to share with you my insights about the pitfalls in the divorcing process and what you can do to prevent them from happening.
divorcingmistakes.com
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How to eliminate thousands of dollars in legal fees and make legal decisions you will NOT regret
with the ONLY practical guide to dealing with restraining orders that keep you away from your children.
Dear Divorcing Fathers and Husbands,
Are you getting divorced or even thinking about it? Believe it or not, you WILL
probably get hit with a restraining order. If you are hit with a restraining order,
you could lose your freedom, access to your children and your money without even
knowing that it was happening.
How do I know this?
It happened to my father — My parents got divorced when I was two years old. Out of revenge my mom intentionally kept my dad out of my life. I never knew my own
father. He missed me growing up. I am sure this sad fact influences
my actions to this day.
And, most recently it happened to me!
I’m not a psychologist, social worker or lawyer trying to get rich off your pain
and suffering. I am a father that has lived through personal and
financial devastation by the divorce industry.
See, up until September 20, 2006 (the day I was hit with a FRAUDULENT RESTRAINING ORDER by my ex) I was in heaven. I had a life that most people
would dream of. I had accomplished a lot, including:
•Serving my country as a Captain in the Marines
•Leading men in combat in the first Gulf War with the 2nd Marine Division, which
helped liberate Kuwait City
•Going to Wall Street as a trader and working for the largest investment
bank in the world
•Achieving a level of economic success that put me in the top 1% of
all wage earners in the country
•Marrying my first wife, and during a seemingly happy sixteen year marriage having four wonderful children
… but then – BAM!
Everything changed right underneath my nose. It was like I was attacked blindfolded with my hands tied behind my back. I didn’t see it coming and when I was hit with a divorce and a restraining order that prevented me from seeing my children – I
felt helpless.
restrainingorder911.com/DİVORCED REVEALS
with the ONLY practical guide to dealing with restraining orders that keep you away from your children.
Dear Divorcing Fathers and Husbands,
Are you getting divorced or even thinking about it? Believe it or not, you WILL
probably get hit with a restraining order. If you are hit with a restraining order,
you could lose your freedom, access to your children and your money without even
knowing that it was happening.
How do I know this?
It happened to my father — My parents got divorced when I was two years old. Out of revenge my mom intentionally kept my dad out of my life. I never knew my own
father. He missed me growing up. I am sure this sad fact influences
my actions to this day.
And, most recently it happened to me!
I’m not a psychologist, social worker or lawyer trying to get rich off your pain
and suffering. I am a father that has lived through personal and
financial devastation by the divorce industry.
See, up until September 20, 2006 (the day I was hit with a FRAUDULENT RESTRAINING ORDER by my ex) I was in heaven. I had a life that most people
would dream of. I had accomplished a lot, including:
•Serving my country as a Captain in the Marines
•Leading men in combat in the first Gulf War with the 2nd Marine Division, which
helped liberate Kuwait City
•Going to Wall Street as a trader and working for the largest investment
bank in the world
•Achieving a level of economic success that put me in the top 1% of
all wage earners in the country
•Marrying my first wife, and during a seemingly happy sixteen year marriage having four wonderful children
… but then – BAM!
Everything changed right underneath my nose. It was like I was attacked blindfolded with my hands tied behind my back. I didn’t see it coming and when I was hit with a divorce and a restraining order that prevented me from seeing my children – I
felt helpless.
restrainingorder911.com/DİVORCED REVEALS
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Here’s the First Thing You Need to Know:
Most Divorce Lawyers Do Not Care
One Iota About You!
They are in this business to make money not to help you win your divorce and get custody of your kids.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is getting a high-priced attorney and letting him or her run your entire case.
That’s why it is so important that you increase your knowledge about divorce … that’s why it is so important that you read my new ebook, “Insider Secrets and Strategies That Men Must Know to Win Their Divorce!”
Quite simply, this ebook contains everything you need to know to ensure you divorce goes the way you want it to. You’ll learn divorce basics, insider tips and much more.
For example, here is just some of what you will learn on the pages of “Insider Secrets and Strategies That Men Must Know to Win Their Divorce”:
Why women file for divorce at twice the rate of men – plus, the #1 reason women file for divorce and how to turn this to your advantage during the divorce proceedings!
How to separate from your wife – without also being separated from your house, your kids, your assets and everything else that you worked so hard for all these years!
A simple tip that will quickly and easily prevent your wife from hiring the best divorce lawyers in town – you’ll be amazed – and extremely grateful – when you read this amazing tip!
The biggest mistakes you can make with your divorce lawyer – and how to avoid each of them and save yourself thousands of dollars in the process!
The tax implications of a divorce settlement – and how to ensure you get a tax break instead of a big tax bill in the spring!
How to win a divorce without ever even having to go to court – these tips could save hundreds of dollars in court fees!
How to get a great divorce settlement faster than you ever dared dream possible – and while spending less than you could ever hope for!
How to dramatically lower your alimony payment – or even get rid of it all together!
And much, much more!
Have questions about ebooks?
mens-divorce-tactics.com
Most Divorce Lawyers Do Not Care
One Iota About You!
They are in this business to make money not to help you win your divorce and get custody of your kids.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is getting a high-priced attorney and letting him or her run your entire case.
That’s why it is so important that you increase your knowledge about divorce … that’s why it is so important that you read my new ebook, “Insider Secrets and Strategies That Men Must Know to Win Their Divorce!”
Quite simply, this ebook contains everything you need to know to ensure you divorce goes the way you want it to. You’ll learn divorce basics, insider tips and much more.
For example, here is just some of what you will learn on the pages of “Insider Secrets and Strategies That Men Must Know to Win Their Divorce”:
Why women file for divorce at twice the rate of men – plus, the #1 reason women file for divorce and how to turn this to your advantage during the divorce proceedings!
How to separate from your wife – without also being separated from your house, your kids, your assets and everything else that you worked so hard for all these years!
A simple tip that will quickly and easily prevent your wife from hiring the best divorce lawyers in town – you’ll be amazed – and extremely grateful – when you read this amazing tip!
The biggest mistakes you can make with your divorce lawyer – and how to avoid each of them and save yourself thousands of dollars in the process!
The tax implications of a divorce settlement – and how to ensure you get a tax break instead of a big tax bill in the spring!
How to win a divorce without ever even having to go to court – these tips could save hundreds of dollars in court fees!
How to get a great divorce settlement faster than you ever dared dream possible – and while spending less than you could ever hope for!
How to dramatically lower your alimony payment – or even get rid of it all together!
And much, much more!
Have questions about ebooks?
mens-divorce-tactics.com
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With the number of divorces escalating at a frightening rate, more grandparents are experiencing serious problems involving their grandchildren.
~ You may have difficulty seeing them on a steady basis or you may have been denied visits altogether.
~ You may suspect or even know that they are neglected and possibly abused.
~ You may have found that they are being “warehoused” in daycare.
~ It is not uncommon for grandchildren to have been “given” to the other Grandparents and maybe even taken to another state.
Grandparents increasingly find it necessary to go to court to help their grandchildren. This report is designed to let grandparents know their legal rights.
What options do they have concerning their grandchildren?
Grandparents Rights Manual presents information in a clear and concise manner about what is happening on both a national and a state basis--- IT COVERS THE SPECIFIC STATE REGULATIONS FOR ALL FIFTY STATES.
This 129 page report presents the most current information available. It will show you clearly WHAT YOUR OPTIONS ARE IN HELPING YOUR GRANDCHILDREN.
IT ALSO INCLUDES: The most up-to-date “precedent setting” legal cases and legal opinions from throughout the United States. Contains specific Grandparents information from every state in the U.S.
129 pages (and growing!)
custodycenter.com/GRANDPARENT RİGHT
~ You may have difficulty seeing them on a steady basis or you may have been denied visits altogether.
~ You may suspect or even know that they are neglected and possibly abused.
~ You may have found that they are being “warehoused” in daycare.
~ It is not uncommon for grandchildren to have been “given” to the other Grandparents and maybe even taken to another state.
Grandparents increasingly find it necessary to go to court to help their grandchildren. This report is designed to let grandparents know their legal rights.
What options do they have concerning their grandchildren?
Grandparents Rights Manual presents information in a clear and concise manner about what is happening on both a national and a state basis--- IT COVERS THE SPECIFIC STATE REGULATIONS FOR ALL FIFTY STATES.
This 129 page report presents the most current information available. It will show you clearly WHAT YOUR OPTIONS ARE IN HELPING YOUR GRANDCHILDREN.
IT ALSO INCLUDES: The most up-to-date “precedent setting” legal cases and legal opinions from throughout the United States. Contains specific Grandparents information from every state in the U.S.
129 pages (and growing!)
custodycenter.com/GRANDPARENT RİGHT
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You just want your kids to grow up happy and healthy and to have a life for yourself. But, you're co-parenting with someone who seems to be determined to cause as much trouble as possible. You may feel as if you're at the end of your rope and wonder how you'll get through the years until your youngest child turns eighteen. This ebook will teach you strategies to co-parent with a "crazy" parent and most of all, give you hope as you learn ways to minimize damage to your kids and get your life back.
You'll LEARN how to:
Take care of you
Help your kids to cope
Protect yourself and your children legally and physically
Choose a lawyer and a therapist
Deal with common "crazy" co-parent behavior
Communicate with an "insane" co-parent
And Much More
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You'll LEARN how to:
Take care of you
Help your kids to cope
Protect yourself and your children legally and physically
Choose a lawyer and a therapist
Deal with common "crazy" co-parent behavior
Communicate with an "insane" co-parent
And Much More
coparentingnightmare.com
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Insider Secrets To Getting A Fair Divorce
This Is The Divorce Advice Your Husband Doesn't Want You To Know About!
Divorce expert reveals the tips and tricks every woman must know, whether...
- You've decided to pull the plug on a dying marriage and are doing a little pre-divorce exit planning,
- You've been served with divorce papers and need to get up to speed fast, or
- You're smack dab in the middle of a divorce and need to make sure all your bases are covered!
womansdivorce.com/DİVORCE ADVİCE FOR WOMEN
This Is The Divorce Advice Your Husband Doesn't Want You To Know About!
Divorce expert reveals the tips and tricks every woman must know, whether...
- You've decided to pull the plug on a dying marriage and are doing a little pre-divorce exit planning,
- You've been served with divorce papers and need to get up to speed fast, or
- You're smack dab in the middle of a divorce and need to make sure all your bases are covered!
womansdivorce.com/DİVORCE ADVİCE FOR WOMEN
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Dear Grandparent, You are NOT alone!
Unfortunately, with the number of divorces escalating at a frightening rate, more and more grandparents just like you are experiencing fear and despondency regarding the fate of their beloved grandchildren.
* You may have difficulty seeing them on a steady basis or you may have been denied visits altogether.
*After a small fight or minor disagreement you find that you are not allowed to visit or your Grandkids are denied sleepovers at your home… even gifts are not allowed to be given. You realize that you are being paid back for getting “out of line.” (Sometimes this happens for just making suggestions to your daughter or son-in-law.)
* You may suspect, or even know, that they are neglected and possibly abused; maybe even left alone for long periods of time without loving supervision or protection.
* You may fear that they are being unduly disciplined by some “stranger” who has moved in with the child’s parent.
* You have heard “inklings” from neighbors, or relatives, or the child, about drugs and parties, and many “friends” coming and going.
* You may have found that they are being "warehoused" in daycare.
* You may realize that they have been "given" to the other Grandparents
custodycenter.com/GRANDPARENTS
Unfortunately, with the number of divorces escalating at a frightening rate, more and more grandparents just like you are experiencing fear and despondency regarding the fate of their beloved grandchildren.
* You may have difficulty seeing them on a steady basis or you may have been denied visits altogether.
*After a small fight or minor disagreement you find that you are not allowed to visit or your Grandkids are denied sleepovers at your home… even gifts are not allowed to be given. You realize that you are being paid back for getting “out of line.” (Sometimes this happens for just making suggestions to your daughter or son-in-law.)
* You may suspect, or even know, that they are neglected and possibly abused; maybe even left alone for long periods of time without loving supervision or protection.
* You may fear that they are being unduly disciplined by some “stranger” who has moved in with the child’s parent.
* You have heard “inklings” from neighbors, or relatives, or the child, about drugs and parties, and many “friends” coming and going.
* You may have found that they are being "warehoused" in daycare.
* You may realize that they have been "given" to the other Grandparents
custodycenter.com/GRANDPARENTS
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Why are Mothers winning custody in Family Court? Why are Fathers "allowed" to see their kids every other weekend and required to pay child support? The "Fathers Rights" movement is failing, and Men are losing custody every day.
Many Fathers have lost custody of their children just because they didn't take the time to find out the rules of the Family Law system. A man can be his own worst enemy during a custody battle, and his failure to learn what he can do to win his case will result in defeat. Women quickly find out what they need to do to take the children and increase child support payments.
I went through a nightmare of a divorce myself. My ex-wife tried to take everything from me, including my daughter. When I came face to face with the biased court system, I didn't give up. I figured out what I needed to do, and took control of the situation. When it was all over I had won custody of my children, and she ended up paying me child support! When you see the simple steps that you can take to gain custody, you will be blown away.
Family Law attorneys do not want you to know what I will teach you! I don't blame them - I wouldn't want to lose thousands of dollars due to this information either. As far as Lawyers go, the only "Fathers Rights" they are interested in is your right to pay them a ton of money.
Speaking of lawyers, there are plenty of them out there who promise you the world, and never deliver. The truth is, when you are in the divorce process or going back to court for custody issues, your lawyer does almost nothing for you! Before you even see a judge, you are required to attend mediation with your ex, and lawyers cannot come with you. 99% of the time the judge will accept the mediators recommendation, and lawyers know this. They want you to settle out of court. They want to make their money without doing anything. You can waste years of your life and thousands of dollars battling the legal system like this, just to lose.
familylawsecrets.com
Many Fathers have lost custody of their children just because they didn't take the time to find out the rules of the Family Law system. A man can be his own worst enemy during a custody battle, and his failure to learn what he can do to win his case will result in defeat. Women quickly find out what they need to do to take the children and increase child support payments.
I went through a nightmare of a divorce myself. My ex-wife tried to take everything from me, including my daughter. When I came face to face with the biased court system, I didn't give up. I figured out what I needed to do, and took control of the situation. When it was all over I had won custody of my children, and she ended up paying me child support! When you see the simple steps that you can take to gain custody, you will be blown away.
Family Law attorneys do not want you to know what I will teach you! I don't blame them - I wouldn't want to lose thousands of dollars due to this information either. As far as Lawyers go, the only "Fathers Rights" they are interested in is your right to pay them a ton of money.
Speaking of lawyers, there are plenty of them out there who promise you the world, and never deliver. The truth is, when you are in the divorce process or going back to court for custody issues, your lawyer does almost nothing for you! Before you even see a judge, you are required to attend mediation with your ex, and lawyers cannot come with you. 99% of the time the judge will accept the mediators recommendation, and lawyers know this. They want you to settle out of court. They want to make their money without doing anything. You can waste years of your life and thousands of dollars battling the legal system like this, just to lose.
familylawsecrets.com
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One of the saddest situations happens when a child has been bribed or manipulated into turning against the father--and frequently this father is, in our opinions, the better of the two parents. A case we are actively working with right now illustrates what we are talking about. The father, a warm and hard-working professional, runs into all of the following from his ten year old daughter, when he tries to phone or comes to pick the girl up for a visit.
"I don't want to talk now. I'm busy." (The child slams the phone down.)
"You know I don't like to see you!"
"You're bothering us; don't call me !" (The father, rightly, wonders who the "us" is in this statement.)
And the father frequently hears what is a sure sign of a bribed or manipulated child, words and sentences that are obviously not of the child's own creation, but rather from the bitter and vindictive other parent:
"You decided to leave us. This is all your fault. You're not entitled to share in my life anymore."
Unfortunately, most fathers singled out to be the victims of such vitriolic attacks are poorly equipped to deal with them. They start out trying to be calm and loving, but all too soon are worn down by the hurt, frustration and road blocks continuously thrown up when they attempt contacts with the child. They end up either retreating, or counter-attacking---neither of which can lead to a happy outcome. It is essential that fathers caught up in this kind of trap learn the four strategies that can be truly effective and helpful in this situation.
custodycenter.com/DIAMOND-07
"I don't want to talk now. I'm busy." (The child slams the phone down.)
"You know I don't like to see you!"
"You're bothering us; don't call me !" (The father, rightly, wonders who the "us" is in this statement.)
And the father frequently hears what is a sure sign of a bribed or manipulated child, words and sentences that are obviously not of the child's own creation, but rather from the bitter and vindictive other parent:
"You decided to leave us. This is all your fault. You're not entitled to share in my life anymore."
Unfortunately, most fathers singled out to be the victims of such vitriolic attacks are poorly equipped to deal with them. They start out trying to be calm and loving, but all too soon are worn down by the hurt, frustration and road blocks continuously thrown up when they attempt contacts with the child. They end up either retreating, or counter-attacking---neither of which can lead to a happy outcome. It is essential that fathers caught up in this kind of trap learn the four strategies that can be truly effective and helpful in this situation.
custodycenter.com/DIAMOND-07
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